PROPERTY
Hi there! We’re Bespoke Family Lawyers.
We are here to guide you out of the uncertainty of separation to financial certainty and freedom, to clear arrangements for your children and to the power and confidence you need to rebuild your life.
Having an emotional attachment to your family home is normal. It’s most likely somewhere you have lived for several years. You’ve put your heart and soul into renovating, decorating and organising and had expected to be living at this residence for many years to come in the future. The very last thing you want to do is move to an unfamiliar location. However, this is something every couple faces when they separate, because at some stage, at least one of you has to move out in order for both of you to move forward. This is often easier said than done, and we see clients really struggling with this decision and with taking steps to put it in action.
We have detailed a few questions below that we get asked about property settlements in the divorce process to get you started thinking about this issue or to assist in having the difficult discussion with your Ex.
There are usually two options when it comes to dealing with the house:
This is usually determined by whether one party has the borrowing capacity to retain the house by themselves or not. To figure out whether it is a viable option for you to keep the family home, we recommend that you speak to a bank or mortgage broker to ascertain if you are able to afford to take on the mortgage by yourself and how much you are able to borrow. Any such conversation with the bank should also include the possibility of a cash payment to the other party including an estimated amount of the cash payment, to get an idea of whether you will be able to borrow enough to ‘buy out’ your Ex.
If you do find out you have the borrowing capacity to keep the property, have the mortgage transferred into your name, and meet any potential cash payment to your Ex – then we recommend that the next step is making a budget and ensuring that you will be able to meet the new mortgage repayments comfortably on your salary and still have enough funds for all the other things you like to spend your money on. It is important to make sure that keeping the family home is the best option for you and one that you will be able to maintain while still keeping the lifestyle you want moving forward.
If you and your Ex ultimately decide that one of you will retain the property as part of the family law property settlement, then here are a few considerations to keep in mind:
If you and your Ex ultimately decide to sell the property as part of the family law property settlement, then here are a few considerations to keep in mind:
Despite us providing details above on some options and considerations when it comes to dealing with your family home, there is no one size fits all approach, and there may be other issues relevant to your specific matter. If you reach any roadblocks when having these discussions with your Ex, then we recommend that you contact a family lawyer to assist you in thinking through these issues or having the discussion on your behalf to move you forward.
We are happy to have a chat with you if you have any queries in relation to the sale or transfer of your property in your family law matter.
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***Disclaimer***
This article is for general information purposes only and does not constitute legal advice or any other professional advice.

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